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Emails to Pastor Phil is the best Practical Pastoral Theology book you will ever read. In Emails to Pastor Phil the author has focused not on theory but on real life situations. This book takes a pastor on a journey that applies the principles of leadership to their own lives and the lives of the church. It looks among other things at issues of personal integrity and self discipline. It explores the myths of leadership; it is not about the best being in control or the person with the highest IQ being the leader.

Emails to Pastor Phil is about building a team that reflects strong values and culture and that will make an impact on the church and its missional community. It is about having a clear vision and conviction that will help in the development of a pastor and their leaders. It is about challenging the status quo and doing something different.

This book and the questions and answers reflected in it are a guide to the complex minefield that is today’s pastoral ministry. It deals with issues of: What a pastor should be paid, gender equality, emotional intelligence, strategic planning, how to influence others, how to handle criticism and how to deal with a crisis. It tries to give answers to the question that were never asked or answered in a Pastoral theology class.

Emails to Pastor Phil is about intentional leadership. That is learning to understand your own leadership style and approaching Pastoral ministry with a sound perspective and discernment. Emails to Pastor Phil provides powerful insights about Leadership, Ministry and Life for the young Christian Leader.

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Extract Page 94

Attachment: Can a psychopath be a good Christian Leader? I have to say that I found this question of yours rather amusing, as I had never really thought about it nor read anything about it. So I had to go away and  ruminate on it and also do some searching on line.

The immediate thing that comes to my mind, when someone mentions psychopath, is serial killer! All the bad, amoral and violent sins rolled into one individual, a person with no conscience or feelings for others. However there is a body of academics that feel, that this neurological condition can result in there being good psychopaths walking among us. This neurological condition affects 1% of the adult male population.

A survey conducted by Forbes listed the top ten professions that you will more likely than not find psychopaths.

  • Number 1 was CEO’s
  • 2, Lawyers (no surprise there and many go into politics which also explains it)
  • 3, Media TV/Radio personalities.
  • 4, Salespeople (Those dreaded double glazing and solar heating people that hunt down and prey on old age pensioners.)
  • 5,Surgeons (This surprised me, but on reflection maybe not)
  • 6, Journalist ( They have just got to get the story.)
  • 7, Police Officers.
  • 8, Clergy both traditional and evangelical, (Now this did surprise me.)
  • 9, Chefs (a number of names come to mind).
  • 10, Civil Servants (That explains why we are made to wait in long queues and then told to wait, they enjoy the pain it brings)

Interestingly, as a general rule, you don’t find psychopaths among Care workers, charity workers, nurses or Accountants- for some reason, not sure if that includes bankers, I doubt it. Also interestingly enough both Donald Trump and Hillary Clinton have been identified as psychopaths, one a business man/CEO and the other a lawyer/ politician.

This brings me to the question in point. Can a Christian Leader be a Psychopath? Clearly if the present scientific thought and the survey done by Forbes are to be believed then the answer is yes!

Psychopathic traits include, being bold and confident, stress tolerant, risk takers, hugely loyal to those who work for them, and charming and charismatic visionaries. All of these things we look for in our Christian leaders. On the down side psychopaths lack empathy; they don’t really care about how people feel. This is an essential perhaps in good pastoral leadership.  Having said this though, psychologists have found that psychopaths are really good at knowing how people think, what they want, and what they believe. While they themselves may not have these feelings, they are able to accurately mimic a feeling of empathy with those they serve. Psychopaths are more likely to get themselves into trouble and fall. This is not, in recent times, unusual in Christian leaders.

On this subject, for me the jury is still out. But one thing I do know is, we are all sinners saved by grace and that we all- to some extent or other have psychopathic traits.

You never know maybe we do have psychopaths preaching in our pulpits.